Sexplain It: My GF Refuses to Have Sex Sober
In this Men’s Health “Sexplain It” column, a reader seeks advice on navigating a relationship where his girlfriend insists on drinking before sex. Sex columnist Zachary Zane consults Tawny Lara, The Sober Sexpert and author of Dry Humping, who offers guidance on approaching the topic with empathy and clarity. Lara emphasizes the importance of communicating personal reasons for reducing alcohol consumption and suggests exploring sober intimacy through shared experiences, such as trying non-alcoholic beverages together. She also highlights the significance of understanding underlying factors that may contribute to a partner’s reliance on alcohol for intimacy. This column provides practical advice for couples facing challenges in aligning their sexual and sobriety goals.
